Saturday, April 2, 2011

Seriously, what the fuck was that about?

So last night, while on my usual reading-back-tweets-and-checking-for-notifications ritual before I go to bed, I stumbled upon probably the most annoying thing a person could do:

My ex's current girlfriend added me on Facebook.

It would've been fine except I'm not a fan of friendships like this. Call me immature but I have a list of reasons why this kind of "friendship" wouldn't work (even if both me and my ex are over "us"):
  1. Most probably, the one initiating this friendship has a vendetta against the other person. Rubbing it on the other person's face, showing off... Whatever it is, there is SOMETHING.
  2. The exes shared something very intimate before that having any kind of relationship with the current one would be really...awkward. I mean, seeing my ex with another girl is one thing but getting an inside scoop as to what they do and how they do it is another.
  3. The ex wouldn't want this if it happened to him.
  4. It doesn't make sense. At all.
  5. It's just plain rude on all three parties. It's like living with your husband and his ex.
If - and I doubt it - her intentions were clean, she probably wouldn't have sent a friend request right after she posted all the photos of the surprise birthday party my ex threw her. So, I did what felt natural and blocked her off my friends' list.

To my ex (who I know reads my blog), I'm pretty sure she's awesome because to get you to do something like that means she is but I don't think a "friendship" with her will work. It wouldn't make sense. To me, at least. I hope you understand.

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